PRE-MARITAL / COHABITATION counseling in WEBSTER, NY

So you have decided to take the leap…the leap into getting a place together or getting married.

Have you both decided you want to be the best versions of yourselves before this big change takes place? Does the thought of combining households, finances, or having children/blending families make you a tad bit nervous? Are you ready to do the deeper work in your relationship, but are unsure of where to start? 

Pre-marital or pre-cohabitation work is a great way to
be proactive in making the transition as smooth as possible.

How I Can Help

With my couples, I provide an environment where we can talk about any concerns you may have.

I want you to be able to share your wants, needs, and concerns using a semi-structured format to make sure we talk about the basics of living with someone. 

I will help you talk through the tough conversations that many couples do not know how to initiate by providing you workbooks on things such as Division of Labor, Finances, Intimacy and Sex, Children (having them or blending of families), as well as any cultural or religious beliefs that may impact the relationship. We will review them together and talk about any possible conflicts that may arise and help you plan for your future together. 

If you choose this path and want to do proactive work with me, you have a few options:

one

A commitment of weekly sessions for ten weeks

This will allow us to review each of the areas and work through any concerns. If at the end of the ten weeks, we need more time, we will move to bi-weekly sessions until completed.

two

A commitment of bi-weekly sessions for twenty weeks

We will review each of the areas at a slower pace. If at the end of twenty weeks, we need more time, we will continue with bi-weekly sessions until completed. 

three

weekend intensive

If time is of concern and you wish to complete the work in a shorter period, the option of meeting for a weekend intensive is available based on my availability and a pre-screen call. This would occur over eight hours on a Saturday and Sunday. 

I look forward to taking this journey with you!

More Ways I Can Help You

  • SEX THERAPY

    Sex therapy can help with many things involving your sexual health such as sexual dysfunctions, low libido, desire discrepancy, sexual identity questions, questions about kinks or fetishes and so much more. I will help to alleviate any feelings of apprehension,embarrassment and fears and together we will find a solution.

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  • COUPLES

    If you and your partner are experiencing difficulties such as break down in communication, decreased intimacy, infidelity, frequent disagreements or seem to be just growing apart, then couples therapy is for you. I will work with both of you on learning skills and techniques to resolve and move forward.

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  • RELATIONSHIPS

    Relationships shape our sense of self and connection to others. I will help you navigate the challenges and better understand the complexities in your familial, intimate, professional or friendships that are causing you distress. I will work with you on finding a solution to bring you more joy in those relationships.

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Are you ready to take the next step in transforming your relationships or sexual health?

Schedule a free 10 minute consultation to get started. I look forward to hearing from you.